
Marcylen and Marcia
We're looking to adopt a baby
Hi there! We are Marcylen and Marcia. We are thankful you are taking a moment to get to know us and considering us future parents.
Our story is unusual; a girl from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil fell in love with a military brat! We first met in graduate school through mutual friends and were friends for a year before we started dating. In the fall of 1999, we spent more time together, sparks flew and we became inseparable. We know it sounds cliche, but we knew right then and there that we were meant to spend our lives together.
After dating for five months, we got engaged and were married in 2001. We had beautiful ceremonies in both the US and in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil (a week apart!) to share our special day with all the family in both places. Marcylen had the opportunity to meet Marcia’s entire family in Brazil all at once.
We spent a lot of time together enjoying the pool at our community, taking long walks around the neighborhood, and getting to know the folks at the new church we had recently joined. About four years into our marriage, we started planning to grow our family. We tried on our own for about a year and then started seeking fertility help. Our journey through infertility was long, hard and filled with heartaches. Once we exhausted all our options, we proceeded to seek to grow our family through foster care. Our foster children were ultimately reunified with their biological family and though we were happy for the children, we were also heartbroken and devastated. Our hearts ache deeply with the desire to grow our family and we know that adoption is the perfect way to do so.
Financial Support
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
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Navigating a pregnancy alone is never easy. Depending on your situation and location, you may qualify for financial assistance to help cover the cost of basic living expenses, such as food and groceries.
Medical Expenses
Receiving quality medical care during your pregnancy is vital to both your health and the health of your baby. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your pregnancy-related medical expenses will be covered by the adoptive family.
Rent & Utilities
Women who choose to place their baby for adoption may receive financial assistance to help cover the cost of rent and utilities. If you feel that you'll need some help with these costs, it's important to talk to your adoption social worker about it early in the process.
Household Items
In order to have a healthy pregnancy, it's important that you have everything you need to lead a healthy lifestyle. The cost of some household items may be covered during your pregnancy.
Counseling
Placing a baby for adoption is a loving but incredibly challenging decision. Many women experience a range of emotions during this time and find that counseling is very helpful.
Transportation
If you need assistance with transportation, your adoption social worker can help you find the best solution. You may be eligible for help with transportation costs.
Blogs

Things we have been doing while we wait
We have been filling our days with activities that brings us joy. Hanging out with friends is one of them.

Family in Brazil
The pandemic made things complicated, but we did what families everywhere did! We did a lot of FaceTime and reminisced o...

Nieces and nephews
We have been blessed to have 2 nieces and 2 nephews in Rio. They are beyond fun.

Things to do while in Rio de Janeiro
Going to Rio is a 10 to 20hr visit depending on how we travel. Sometimes we go together and sometimes only one of us is ...
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Glimpses
Our photos will be available here as soon as we upload some. We're excited to share glimpses of our life with you!